Who I am...
I like to think that I'm the kind of person that's always up for fun. I make every attempt to never miss out on a social opportunity. Who knows? The one party that I didn't go to might have been the one where I could have met Mr. Right! Besides, I love to dance, and what better venue for dancing than a gay party with music that really brings the bitch out!
My sense of humor is complemented with a fierce sarcastic streak. I'm very big on communication, so I absolutely love talking with and learning more about people. Cuddling is my favorite pastime, and I'm ecstatic to get a Jamba Juice and rent a video. I also love to travel, especially to big cities (it makes me feel important). And I'm impetuously determined to make the most out of every moment of my existence.
What I'm Looking For...
I'm definitely looking for a long term relationship...I like to be into someone to the point that I think about them all day long. I'd like to find somebody that's outgoing and charismatic, because I like to compete for attention (otherwise I get bored). A sense of humor is imperitive, and sarcasm is always a plus :-)
I'am currently single but I do date. what I look for in a guy is complete honesty and someone who knows what they want in life. Looks to me are not important but you should at least take care of yourself. I look for someone who is going to be with me for who I am and not because I'm goodlooking or any other reason besides for being me. I look for someone who I can have an intelectual conversation with and not get mad at each other. I like someone who says what they feel and don't hide a thing. Its all about being real and keeping it real. I am a live in housekeeper right now until school is done I'm studying to be a Medical Assistant. The money is notgreat yet I feel a desire to help people. I'm not into materiallistic things. I can be completely happy with just a place to live and three hot meals. I believe that you should help people when you can. I try and help as much as I can. Everyone needs a true friend and I try and be that true friend.
I have alot of convictions and stick to them. I do not however force people to accept them they are my beliefs and I don't expect anyone reading this to agree just listen or read as you will with an open mind. I will gladly take comments and read them with an open mind as well. Now on with the fun stuff. I grew up in a small town called SANTA MARIA Ca. I lived there until I was 13 and was taken from my parents by the state. I belive that it was the best hting that happened to me. Now I get htis question all the time "How long have you known you were gay?" I have know I was gay all my life. I knew in Kindergarden when I wanted to plsy with the barbies and not in the sand. I love men and it was not a choice when people say it was a choice that I made I believe they are highly mistaken and need a little bit of brains.....My relationship with my parents are not a big part of my life. My mother isn't to excepting of my life I don't loose much sleep over it. My father was never around so I don't care what he thinks. I have alot of issues with my parents but I jsut forget about them and say im a better person without them in myy life. So anyway....I Finished HS and moved to Bakersfield and started school. i put myself through school and work. as you read befor I want to be a Medical Assistant. I haev about 12 or so months and I'm through. I am currently single yet I'm dating..?.?.? Don't ask.. I met a few great guys but I have met a few that have alot of self evaluating to do. I'm interested in friends first then maybe more. You must and I mean must be HOnest with yourself and others and I hate bull shit and drama. If you have drama in your life keep it in your life. 
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